3 Things to know re: post-COVID NYC

The cocktail lounge in the Beekman Hotel in lower Manhattan not far from World Trade

Dear readers – assuming I still have readers, I’ve really fallen off the wagon. But, I have a GREAT excuse. Are you ready? I quit my day-job and started my own business. The work is plentiful, but the pay is much, much less…..sounds attractive, right? I work for myself! All in all, it takes more of my time, but it’s SO much more rewarding. You’ll just have to trust me on this.

Nevertheless, I HAVE been traveling. Albeit, it’s much more domestic than my travel was previously and one of the first places I want to cover is my dear old friend, New York City. I visited Manhattan immediately prior to lock-down and now 3 or 4 times since. I’ve noticed a few things.

As you know from reading prior posts, NYC has always been a favorite of mine and I’ve always considered myself a bit of an aficionado where the big apple is concerned. Bearing in mind that I’m speaking as a tourist, I’m going to tell you what I’ve learned following the last 2 years:

  • Don’t believe the hype – New York City is not unsafe for travelers
  • Be sure to check hours of operation and even menus before you head out
  • Don’t take the city for granted – it’s vulnerable just like everyone else

Listen to your gut and you’ll find NYC perfectly fine for tourism

People keep saying that the city is WAY more dangerous post-COVID. So often I hear: I wouldn’t do that today……. Or, “Don’t go there alone anymore.” Of course, it gives me pause when I hear locals say it, so there must be SOMETHING to it. My impression? It’s just less crowded today than it used to be.

The old adage about safety in numbers was to our advantage in the city prior to COVID. Anywhere you turned, there were hundreds (thousands?) of people around you – nowadays, you might turn down a city block and find it surprisingly desolate. ESPECIALLY at night. So, eyes-up guys, stay alert! As I’ve said before, every place isn’t Disneyland (…..thank God, but also….now I’m thinking about Disneyland…..) Be aware of your surroundings. Know where you’re going.

And, for goodness sake, realize that it’s not always worth ‘muscling through’. I have to remind myself sometimes that diverting my planned course is best. Ducking into a store to get your bearings, check your directions or to let someone following too closely pass by is just a smart approach. Call a Lyft or Uber instead of saving the $10 that would’ve led you down an empty street or through a bad neighborhood on foot. Make good choices – you won’t be sorry.

Manage expectations: Google is your friend

Lots of places took advantage of the downtime and remodeled or even re-branded, so their offerings have changed dramatically. Some are still struggling with getting enough help, so hours are reduced.

One of the best surprises I’ve gotten recently was the new lobby and bar at the Algonquin Hotel. I found it comfortable and reliable before – but, it’s a must-see today! Drop in after a show to grab a cocktail and dessert. You’re welcome.

Don’t worry, Hamlet is still at the Algonquin

However, due to the staffing shortage, some places don’t have the late hours they used to. If you’re counting on an after-show snack, call ahead and be sure you have options. A little planning will make the difference between ending the night on a high note, or eating mini-bar peanuts for dinner. I know they don’t really have mini-bar peanuts anywhere anymore….it’s a joke….you got where I was going with it though, right? Geez.

The times, they are a’changin

If you have “that place we always go”, and most of us do, I’m very sorry to tell you – it might not be there anymore. More than 1,000 restaurants have closed since March 2020. It’s shocking to me to see the number of closed retail and restaurant spots as I walk down the streets. That said, I found new places that I can learn to love very much. Carnegie Diner & Cafe, for example, was a delightful breakfast spot. Had one of my old favorites been around, I would’ve passed it right on by.

It’s a little bitter-sweet, but, keep an open mind. The good offerings are still out there and there are MULTITUDES of the old staples out there waiting for your patronage. What’re you waiting for??

“London is satisfied, Paris is resigned, but New York is always hopeful. Always it believes that something good is about to come off, and it must hurry to meet it.”

– Dorothy Parker, writer and founding member of the Algonquin Round Table

New York was hard-hit and so were other major cities. They’re struggling to make a come-back. I’ve been to NYC at least 3 times since the pandemic first started. I’ve been to Chicago at least twice and LA 2 or 3 times. It just takes a little more upfront planning now. And, I don’t begin to suggest I know what it’s like to live and work in the city under the new conditions, so forgive me if I’ve struck a chord for anyone. My aim was to write a love song that promotes what we love about the city(ies) and maybe motivate ONE traveler to say, “Yeah – I’m booking!”

If we don’t use it, we’ll lose it

The longer you wait, the more likely a further prolonged dip in business might whittle away at those beloved places that are still hanging on. We have time and science on our side now and I think we can move around comfortably and relatively safely – don’t let the pandemic put the “Out of Business” sign on your own personal travel itineraries – get out and see the world. It’s been waiting for you to return.

Speaking of which, I’m returning to New York in a few weeks to take in the holiday decorations – I never thought I’d go 1 year without basking in the glow of Rockefeller Plaza all decked out in its holiday finest, but now I’ve gone 3 (THREE!!). Maybe I should titrate first……I’ll look at 10 twinkle lights a day at first, then 20…..

…Is Travel around the corner?

Longing – an underused noun meaning desire and yearning. That’s what I have for travel. What about you? When asked whether I miss the rushing down endless airport terminals, the crowds of novice flyers, schlepping my suitcase up and down, up and down (and, up and down)? I’d have to say no. And, yes – Any adventure would be new after a year of quarantining.

This time last year, we re-scheduled our 2020 Hawaii trip for Spring Break 2021. Thanks to some amazing frequent traveler perks, we were going to Waikiki for $44. Yeah – airfare & hotel included….for 2….. Alas, though as we discovered on-line, the restaurant, bar and shopping options we’ve come to love were largely still shuttered. In the end, we decided that sitting on an exquisite beach just didn’t justify 7+ hours of transit each way; it was a tougher call for my husband, but it would’ve left me stir-crazy. After much deliberation, we spent exponentially more in order to visit the ersatz world: Disney World. As adults. Without children.

How on earth did we arrive at this? It wasn’t without a little “You’ve got to be kidding me”(on his part) and “Look at this drink menu!” from me. To say he was dubious would be an understatement. Nonetheless, I got the agent on the phone and we embarked on a journey to a world that was persevering through and around COVID and really doubling-down on their protocols in order to reassure those of us (who were willing to pay) a little normalcy. At this point, that seemed a more than fair exchange. But, serious – Disney World? Just stick with me here.

It’s a theme park – why use a travel agent?

Because vacation should be play, not work. Walt Disney World’s running at 37% capacity across the entire resort right now – parks, restaurants, hotels. And, this makes navigating a space I know very well uniquely challenging. I’d already decided to engage an agent who’d helped me 4 or 5 times prior. Deannise booked my hotel, my parks (yes, you have to book park reservations right now) and all of my dining. She handled deposits and the final payments. I did the fun stuff! I did all the tweaking when and if I felt like it. All in all, if you’re heading out to the parks any time soon and you don’t have at least 1 set of finalized plans, you’ll be paying a fortune to hang around your pool eating takeaway. If that’s what you want – cool. No judgment.

Water view, artisanal snacks, and indulgent libations – that’s an edible hibiscus bloom, btw

Is there really anything for adults to do at Disney? ….Honestly?

Hm…they have creative and unique cocktails everywhere. And, authentic regional cuisine – think delectable poutines…which is like impossible to get in Texas. And, the best part? You simply walk away from whining, exhausted children because they’re not yours and you have no obligation to endure them. When you want a quiet meal, try booking a $150/person meal – you’ll see fewer children there. Roll up on a pub along the water; very few kids there. Surprisingly, they have adult pool offerings at many resorts. We took long walks along manicured gardens and waterways. Seriously – there was no shortage of adult-oriented diversions. Across the week, we also really came to appreciate that mask compliance was managed tightly. And, with daily temperature monitoring of all guests and staff, we knew that the folks at the next table were at least asymptomatic. I have to say – that helped me settle in and relax.

They sell half-bottles of vodka in the gift shop & I have a balcony with a water view. I love this place!

A mom at our resort explaining how she’s able to unwind amid 3 exhausted kids every night.

But, really – was it worth it?

In a year like 2020, and following the Texas snowpocalypse of 2021, I needed a little escapism. And, in my opinion, Disney World is unmatched in this capacity. Initially, we considered some favorites like Las Vegas where we could luxuriate around a posh pool, conduct some extravagant shopping, and tap some great dining. But, while we’re both pending inoculation, the risk seemed too high. Hawaii, as I said previously, isn’t yet open for business. And, I’m not ready to sit elbow-to-elbow with potentially contagious patrons at their few open establishments. Say what you will about COVID and any associated precautions: The efficacy of ignoring it is pretty poor. So, we headed for where they’re leaning in (and, no doubt cashing in) on safety and peace of mind.

So, I’m happy to report we had a REAL vacation! We balanced park time with rest time, and we ate and drank WELL. I should clarify that we also walked a total of 60 miles in 6 days – it wasn’t all just a matter of bellying up to the bar and strapping on a feed bag. Oh, and I also bought an entire sushi serving set from Mitsukoshi (Japan’s largest and oldest department store). Yeah, we found shopping – shocking, I know. This trip has reassured me that there’s light at the end of the tunnel. Whether we achieve ‘herd immunity’ and can move about freely, or we have to endure some shared compliance and consideration. I believe that real travel is on its way – the ETA is TBD, but it’s coming. Trust.

tracking your travel

Who doesn’t dream of South Beach when it’s the 1st week of January?

So, we’ve wrapped up another year – in fact, this one was a DECADE. I saw a meme yesterday that said: 2050 is just as far away as 1990. I don’t think this is possible because 1990 was just yesterday, and 2050 is clearly a year beyond “Blade Runner 2049” even. And, THEY were interacting with androids and using flying cars, so clearly – that’s impossible. (insert eye roll of denial). Nonetheless, I do rather wonder what I’ve been doing with my time. Do you ever look back and take inventory as it were? Having never been a diarist, I tend to look back through past itineraries. I use an app for it – an app that helps me organize future travel and fondly reflect on past travel.

The app I use is TripIt. There are others, but when you do a search around the interwebs, this one shows up at the top of most lists because it’s so easy to use. It’s also a SAP product, so if your travel agency uses SAP Concur for your travel reservations, there’s an auto-interface (I’m not techy, so this sounds right to me – don’t chastise me if I’m way off base). What I mean is, my travel agent makes a reservation for air, hotel, rental car (pfft) and then *poof*, it’s there in my TripIt. I then re-name it whatever catchy name I have for the trip – like instead of “Irvine, CA”, I might call it “Q1 TeamF2F”. Toldja it was catchy. Within the itinerary that my agent started for me, I can add all my other details (e.g. dinner reservations, excursions, tours). It’s very easy because you:

  1. Make a reservation
  2. Receive confirmation of said reservation
  3. Forward the confirmation from any e-mail account linked to your TripIt
  4. It pops up in an itinerary with corresponding dates, or starts a new one

You don’t have to put context, or codes, or anything around the forwarded e-mail, which you send to: [email protected] . It honestly could not be easier. Sure, they occasionally don’t plunk it down just as you’d hope. When that happens, it gets stored in a separate file that you can move manually – it’s not hard. It’s not the magic that it ordinarily is, but when you’re dealing with foreign languages, or less formal confirmations from private vendors, it’s a minimal hassle that you can easily navigate.

Another thing I adore about it is that you can share an itinerary with anyone. You just indicate right in your itinerary who you want to share it with. If they’re a TripIt user, too, it shows up in their app effortlessly. And, you assign rights to them. Just want to let them follow your travels? Don’t give them rights to edit your plans. If they’re a fellow traveler on that trip, they get to collaborate. It’s really effective for couples and small groups especially. My husband used to get frustrated when I didn’t tell him my plans, so now I share all of them. When we travel together, we can each contribute without inadvertently double-booking ourselves. And, I’ve mentioned before that I like having a way to track my flights outside of the carriers’ apps, so you can upgrade your TripIt and do that here, too. I haven’t gone that route, but when they’ve given me free trial periods, it does seem pretty snazzy.

The right travel app can ensure travel Zen almost as much as this Swarovski Buddha at the Kimpton EPIC in Miami. Almost.

Anyway – back to the reminiscing part. According to TripIt, I stayed pretty busy in 2019.

  • Sunny California in January? I’ll take it. I treated myself to a beach resort – makes it feel less like work.
  • Speaking engagement in Florida (both January and February)…someone had to go; at least one was walking distance to Downtown Disney with a HUGE variety of shopping, restaurants and bars/lounges.
  • Milestone birthday for a friend in New Orleans. Stayed at the exquisite Monteleone and ate some pretty incredible food. You do what you have to do to nurture friendships.
  • Oh, yeah – 91st Annual Academy Awards in Hollywood.
  • Vegas, baby – couple’s retreat. As I’ve said before – poolside at a posh or even semi-posh hotel, footsteps to fine dining and excellent shopping. Rarely do you even have to hail a cab in Las Vegas. That’s pretty relaxing.
  • Singapore and India – I think I’ve posted about those a fair amount already. The flights are long, but SO worth it.
    • I do think one has to see countries in Asia. I thought I was well-traveled until I went there and realized how little I’ve really experienced to date.
  • TCM Film Festival – it’s a hi-light for my year. Located at Hollywood and Vine I get to indulge my obsessive passion for film as an art form along with other people who revel in old movies (and, movies that came out for us in highschool are now considered ‘old movies’, too, FYI). There’s truly nothing like experiencing movies in a group setting (aka: a theater) among dedicated fans.
  • College visits – helping them move in and out of dorms/apartments is, as I’ve said before, grueling work but so worthwhile. The one-on-one time as they start to forge their own independence is so fun to share.
  • Orlando (again) to meet with my department this time – I really love the folks I work with and I value the time we get to spend in-person. There’s too little of it. Someone once told me, ‘It’s too easy to hang up the phone and start letting a person’s disembodied voice become a constant irritation….yet, spend a couple days across the table from them and you start to remember what you liked about them.’ It’s true.
    • Skype helps, but true face-to-face time, some wine, and a bizarre attraction to coordinating ponchos and interpretive dance does for a group what could never be accomplished via video conference….
  • Another milestone birthday for another friend and her desire to go somewhere she’d never been. We toured Brussels, Antwerp and Bruges. Old friends, new adventures – what could be better?
  • PARIS – have I mentioned I went to Paris last year? I stayed for 2 weeks. It was work and play. I won’t go on because I’ve bent your ear enough about it – but, I will take a moment to ask: Do you ever invite friends who aren’t your “bestie” to travel with you?
    • It’s actually a really good formula. Because you’re not too close, you don’t tend to make decisions FOR them, or encroach on their good nature, etc. Of course we don’t start out to take over for our best and closest humans, but with familiarity can come that tendency. I would highly encourage you to take at least one trip this year with someone whom you simply know and trust, but who isn’t your best friend or partner. You’ll get to know them (or re-know them) better, discover a shared interest, and maybe gain some new insights. You might even find a new travel buddy.
  • Finally, a return to see cherished family now living in Tennessee rounded out my year. Take time to go see your family and friends who live far away.
    • There’s something unique about a shared history – whether it’s your childhood, or your ancestry. There’s a unique bond there that you can choose to explore. When it comes to establishing these people in your life, that ship has sailed – the people you knew growing up are now set and finite. You can’t get new ones. The people who share your same ancestors – also set. There’s no one else who knew your grandparents, aunts and uncles when you were little. So, whether you love those folks already, which I do, or if you’re willing to GET to know them and share a laugh at the weird mis-steps and idiosyncrasies among yourselves and your extended family, there’s literally know one else who has as much skin in the game as you do. Cringe, cry and laugh about it together, but you don’t have to EXPLAIN it – that’s the beauty of it. They already get it.
Even a produce market in Asia can be breathtaking. Go see it – pictures don’t do it justice.

What will the new year, or new decade for that matter, hold for you? Now’s a great time to start mapping that out. I have 7 trips on my TripIt already. How about you?